Real Solutions

Real – actually existing as a thing or occurring in fact, not imagined, or supposed. 

Solution – a means of solving a problem or dealing with a difficult situation.

It is important to know exactly what you want; you must not be in denial about yourself or your situation. When keeping it real, you must know and accept responsibility for solving problems confronting you. In 2022 this can be difficult but base your decisions and subsequent actions on what you know from the reliable resources you have gathered. 

Let us get started with the end in mind. What is it you want to accomplish? Think long term not short term or immediate.

You want REAL solutions, correct? Short term or immediate fixes will keep you coming back to the same old problem or situation. Aim for a “best version of yourself”. This attitude will take you far. Use self-talk or your inner voice and invest in your own transformation. Set boundaries and stick to them. Look in the mirror and know you can trust yourself to come up with a plan of action. That plan might include getting outside assistance, using the many resources that are available to you.  Stay focused and do not allow doubt to enter the picture; it pushes away confidence. Remember no matter how small your steps are to your solution, do not look back; you are getting to your destination. You have emptied out the negative now you have room for all that is good. 

Be deliberate in all that you do. “THAT IS A REAL SOLUTION!”

Joann Cox